爱情的魅力是无限的，从翩翩少年到耄耋老人，爱情一直是人们心中闪耀的光芒。它能使暗淡的世界异彩纷呈，也能使濒死者焕发活力。在无数次的主观渲染之后，它是诗人笔下的圣物；小说家情节中的波澜；幻想的世界无不美好；爱情是人们永远追求的幸福。

　　当理想的热烈与现实的冰冷撞击时，绚丽的世界灰飞烟灭，活力熄灭，留下无尽的失落？？其实这还是未遂者的幸运。一些人拥有了爱情，不幸却堕入痛苦的深渊，无意间将自己置身于进退两难的境地，长期领受心灵的折磨。？？因为幸福只存在于想象之中。

　　人们总是习惯于断章取义地看人生、努力重复别人的生活，并不考虑究竟，身临其境则是无法言喻的煎熬。然而，忍耐痛苦的人竟成了他人羡慕的偶像。要知道，爱情无不以痛苦为结局。

　　当梦想与现实相违时，各种戏论随之成为指导行为的依据，使我们从一个痛苦奔向另一个痛苦。许多人虽有能力克服生活中的种种艰辛，却无法摆脱情感的困惑，孤独与贪著使我们在温柔与美艳面前束手就擒，成为事业的巨人情感的侏儒。一面在风雨中屹立，另一面却在沼泽中爬行，一次次尝试栖身之所，这种尝试无异于轮椅与拐杖的交替，它们都不能使我们最终独立！

　　爱情只是一种自我满足，一切付出都以自我感受为标准，最纯真的爱情无非是最真诚的索取，不要认为追求爱情比追求物质更高贵。贪婪使人们永不满足，最艳丽的花朵也会失去色彩。有了贪婪，爱情犹如这绽放的铅玫瑰，像搀了毒的美味，没有必要用珍贵的生命之唇去反复亲吻。由于认知的片面，人们对于爱情只有一味追求的信心，却不具备承担后果的勇气与能力，因此，不要放浪形骸！

　　爱情像大自然中的花朵，无时无刻不上演着盛开与凋零，永不停息；就像我们的身体，从一出生就开始奔向死亡，犹如这铅玫瑰，总有一天会因保存不善而损毁，变成沉重的垃圾。维护的成本远远大于自身的价值。

　　爱情的自性并非永恒。片刻的欢愉也需要众多因缘的聚合，不要为刹那的闪烁而付出一生的努力！因为爱情并非生命的全部。渴望爱情的人们三思！

蔡志松

2010年11月22日于北京　

Rose

Cai Zhisong

　　The fascination with Love is infinite, it shines through the whole life of a person. Love can brighten the darkness as well as rejuvenate a dying person. Being subjectively described, love becomes the sacrament in poems, the climax in novels, and the pure land in fantasies. People aspire to love all the time.

　　Some witness their love slip, but luckily experience the loss of dreams and realize the cruel reality. While some others enjoy love, in the mean time they indulge in the painful dilemma and psychological torment. They can only imagine the happiness of love.

　　People are accustomed to copy others' lives and never comprehensively appreciate the significance of life. They cannot take any suffering in their lives; however, the ones with extreme endurance are idolized. Love usually ends in pain.

　　When dreams and reality are rather different, many theories become a guide for us to follow, leading us from one pain to another. Many people have the ability to overcome various difficulties in life, but are reluctant to get rid of the strange bewilderment of love. Loneliness and greed want to put us into a trap. As a career giant and a love dwarf, one time and again tries to find a shelter. However, neither a wheelchair nor a crutch could make this person finally independent.

　　Love is like a complacent satisfaction, and people love in vain narcissistic so shallow, neglecting others' need. Pure love is nothing but sincere request. Don't you think that the pursuit of love is nobler than the pursuit of materials, as greed always fades the colour of love. Love is all very well in its way, but life is much higher. Due to one-sided understanding, people only have the confidence to pursue love, but have no courage to bear the consequences, so please don't behave irrationally or uncontrollably.

　　Love is like soft and tender flowers that bloom and die all the time; love is like our bodies, striding from birth toward death; love is like a lead rose, which will go to rack and ruin and become heavy garbage. The costs of maintenance are much higher than the value of itself.

　　Love is not eternal and a moment of joy also needs a number of predestined relations. Don't pay a lifetime for a moment of delusory pleasure, because love is not life at all.

　　Please think carefully when you are searching for love.

作者：蔡志松