The fascination with Love is infinite; it shines through the whole life of a person. Love canbrighten the darkness as well as rejuvenate a dying person. Being subjectively described, lovebecomes the sacrament in poems, the climax in novels, and the pure land in fantasies. Peopleaspire to love all the time.

　　Some witness their love slip, but luckily experience the loss of dreams and realize the cruelreality. While some others enjoy love, in the mean time they indulge in the painful dilemmaand psychological torment. They can only imagine the happiness of love.

　　People are accustomed to copy others' lives and never comprehensively appreciate thesignificance of life. They cannot take any suffering in their lives; however, the ones withextreme endurance are idolized. Love usually ends in pain.

　　When dreams and reality are rather different, many theories become a guide for us to follow,leading us from one pain to another. Many people have the ability to overcome variousdifficulties in life, but are reluctant to get rid of the strange bewilderment of love. Lonelinessand greed want to put us into a trap. As a career giant and a love dwarf, one time and againtries to find a shelter. However, neither a wheelchair nor a crutch could make this personfinally independent.

　　Love is like a complacent satisfaction, and people love in vain narcissistic so shallow,neglecting others' need. Pure love is nothing but sincere request. Don't you think that thepursuit of love is nobler than the pursuit of materials, as greed always fades the color of love?Love is all very well in its way, but life is much higher. Due to one-sided understanding,people only have the confidence to pursue love, but have no courage to bear the consequences,so please don't behave irrationally or uncontrollably.

　　Love is like soft and tender flowers that bloom and die all the time; love is like our bodies,striding from birth toward death; love is like a lead rose, which will go to rack and ruin andbecome heavy garbage. The costs of maintenance are much higher than the value of itself.

　　Love is not eternal and a moment of joy also needs a number of predestined relations. Don'tpay a lifetime for a moment of delusory pleasure, because love is not life at all. Please thinkcarefully when you are searching for love.

Written on November 22, 2010, in Beijing

作者：蔡志松